Yes this is another 2 post day. It helps pass time... Ok so now on with the post.....
Where is the sympathy people?
As my first trimester goes slowly on, I am not finding anyone who will just give me what I want. I feel like each day this week there has been something new or something old steps up a notch. This morning I realized that my GI Track is trying to compete with the uterus by producing a gas bubble that does nothing but hurt me. So I now get to go to bed feeling like I am gonna hurl and I get to wake up feeling like my stomach is going to explode...Fun let me tell you. Never mind the 3 times I have to wake up at night to pee.
Ok now to why everyone is mean. I had asked on friend if I could skip ahead to the 2nd trimester, she said no, I had to go through all this before I could get there. I don't think this is fair. I hear the 2nd trimester is the only enjoyable 12 weeks in this whole process. I do not think it is completely unreasonable to want to just go straight to that trimester.
Another friend who just gave birth to her second child decided it would be fun to mention wouldn't it be funny if I were having twins....NO this would NOT be funny and I told her so. I had a nightmare about this. I went in for the 10 week heartbeat sonogram and they heard 2 heartbeats. After hearing this story my friend decided to share that all the dreams she had about both her kids came true. That its mother's intuition or something. I do not believe this to be true for the amount of babies a woman is carrying, just for the gender of the child.When I told Husband this story, all he could say was can you imagine. No I can't imagine. I was hell on my mom as a kid. I used to just walk away and wonder off and leave my poor mom in a panic of where her 3 year old child went? Now two of those? No I do not need that! One will be handful enough thank you. Maybe a second many years after, maybe we have to see how this one goes first.
To top it all off Husband, whose sole job these 9 months is supposed to be to make me feel better failed at his job last night. He came home and put his arms around me and asked how the Momma was doing and I gave a sleepy grunt he asked if I was the momma to which I said no, you get to be the momma, and I will take the duties back in 10 months. Can you believe he said no?!? Again this is not fair!
As you can tell, I don't do sick well.... So like I said... WHERE'S THE SYMPATHY PEOPLE?
About Me
- Kelli
- Salem, Massachusetts
- I am going to be a first time mom. I am due April 12, 2009.
2 comments:
Well dear...this too shall pass. All the feelings of fear and loneliness. Girl no1 ever feels bad for mommy to be...trust me been there and now have 3. Out here in Cali all alone with no family. I got the well its tough but you made your bed now lie in it. And with Djanai, then Djaeda & when Djordan came along so soon after people just thought I was plum crazy. YOU WILL BE FINE! Your baby will love you, we love you and if you EVER need to talk CALL ME! So you can actually hear how CRAZY motherhood will be. The fact that you've only got 1 coming listening to my 3 in the background will be of great comfort. If I can do it YOU can do it. love u Linda
u want me to call the whaaambulance for you?
your friends should be mean!!!! that's how you know they love you. lol. y would you wanna pass on the morning sickness? i mean damn your maintaining some of your figure...lol
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